She began her career as a hospice volunteer and then worked as a critical care provider in the Emergency Department for many years.
She told me she always wanted her patients to feel empowered while in her care.
“This feeling has to do with quality of life,” she said. “Human connection is just as important as medicine. It looks like holding someone’s hand, or even just pulling up a chair to talk with them. Hearing someone say, ‘Thanks for listening’ is extremely rewarding.”
Listener Poet Ravenna Raven
January 2020
The Art of Caring
I want to celebrate
the strength and resilience
that is always within us.
I’m a hardcore bedside clinician
and I believe that
medicine is a combination
of science and the art
of caring because you can’t
just treat an elbow,
you have to get to know
the whole person.
And if someone says
“Room 232 needs you”
don’t confuse me! Who is it?
It’s a privilege to be
part of people’s lives like this.
You can’t just fly in
and fly out again--
you have to take your time.
“I wonder if these medical professionals, in caring for people who face such insurmountable odds, walk around all the time carrying this weight I’m hauling now.”
He had been trying to cope with the grief ever since and was on a quest for soul-searching and meaning-making.
She spoke about the ways this traumatic event shaped who she is today: a person with an “unshakeable peace” born of deep faith,
She wanted to help people feel comfortable and transform the shame around colon issues. "I want to talk about things that matter, the things people don't want to discuss.
When we met, she was coming off a stretch of nine 14-hour shifts. She was tired but in good spirits.
She reflected on how her resilience was born from moments of shared mirth amid life's trying chapters.
“Life is complex and dirty, but digging in is important to me,” she said. “Maybe if more of us understood history, we could understand each other better.”
We are expected to research, contribute to scholarship, earn grants – all on our own time.
We are expected to research, contribute to scholarship, earn grants – all on our own time.
Every day, I try to see through the patient lens, and I ask: what can we do to change this broken system?
She was very proud of her daughter and has hopes for “a bright future that’s as pain free as possible”
“I’m trying to focus on doing little things to make people feel better during everything that’s going on in the world,” she told me.
“It’s hard to see others struggle,” she said. “How can I help with their struggle without struggling myself?”
"I'd tell her it's OK to be loud...it's OK to challenge and to bring all of you into these spaces where no one looks like you..."
“I'm continuously questioning: did I do it right?" she said. "I’ve always done a good amount of second-guessing, but I’m re-learning how to show up differently.”
“It’s weird,” she said. “This is one of the biggest accomplishments of my life, but it doesn’t feel like it.”
"It changed me; It changed the way I look at life," said this woman about her profound experience during her pregnancy.
“It’s been more challenging than normal lately,” she said. “I’m only one person. It's a struggle for me to say no, but I can’t do everything that’s being asked of me right now.”
"I've been processing how to make the most of the small amount of life we have to live," said this physician.
"I've been processing how to make the most of the small amount of life we have to live," said this physician.